WHAT YOU'VE BEEN DOING
You have been letting them buy back everything that made you interesting.
It happens quietly. The music you loved becomes an advert; the shop you haunted becomes a chain selling the idea of the shop; the whole scene gets flattened into a mood board and sold back with the edges rounded off. And to fit the job, the postcode and the partner's nervous parents, you did the same to yourself. You sanded down, got respectable, and easier to file.
Respectability was a coat, not a skin. The one underneath still fits. We checked.
